No chemistry on first date, would you keep dating?
Meeting someone new, flirting, and going on that first date can be seriously exciting. It’s new, the butterflies are doing their thing, and you’re pumped about what this date could potentially turn into. Does that automatically mean it’s not meant to be? Experts suggest taking a chill pill. Not feeling those love-dovey sparks on the very first date shouldn’t be a total deal breaker.
I have “met” lots of guys on different dating apps but it’s rare we move on It was the first time a guy I “met” online actually proposed a real date.
For those of us who don’t believe in love at first sight , or at least haven’t had it happen to us yet, let’s talk about the slow burn of attraction. In my new dating life, a problem I’m dealing with a lot is the disappointment I feel when I don’t get that sparky feeling with a guy. Which is basically always. The way I see it, on a formal first date by which I mean with a person you don’t know well yet, like an online date or a setup , there are three possible outcomes:.
For me–a love at first sight non-believer–number 3 is the most frequent scenario. I’ve rarely experienced numbers 1 or 2 luckily and sadly, respectively. I think in most cases, it’s pretty rare to know whether or not you have real dating potential with someone after only a few hours. My question is, how long of a chance do you think you have to give the spark to develop?
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